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The friends list is a cool feature but it is not easily discoverable especially for new users. That's why I think there should be a button for it in the menu or at some other place in the client.
According to this thread from 2021 Mia planned to implement this feature. Apparently the feature didn't made it in. Unfortunately there is no information why or what happened.