I mean basically your position is "from where I'm sitting everything is getting better, so personally I'm totally comfortable engaging with racist people." And what I'm saying is, sure you might be comfortable with that. But what about the people who are absolutely not comfortable with racists having a prominent voice here? Are you 'tolerant' of them too, or is it only the racists (or uh 'redeemable conservatives') you want to protect?
I can understand that. The points that I made earlier were largely meant to be applied to our national dialogue as a whole, but there are obviously places (i.e. Pokemon forums) that aren't meant to be the open forum where we all have to deal with nasty perspectives. I do, however, view this specific thread as a smaller outlet of the national discussion that needs to be able to engage with these issues in order to serve its purpose. I wouldn't flip over the table, though, if the Smogon mods banned Deceit right now. I want people to be comfortable,
but you have to be willing to get uncomfortable to have important discussions,
but I can understand wanting to set stricter ground rules.
You have been challenging my words choices a lot; in some ways you've been miss-characterizing me, but I see that as forgivable given that we are still figuring each other out. To clarify:
1.) I'm 'comfortable with engaging with racist people' in the tactical sense; we come out on top if we argue thoroughly and in good faith no matter how vile or misleading racists may be - I don't feel uncomfortable
risk. I
am uncomfortable personally when I encounter people who are racist or otherwise inegalitarian.
2.) I'm not out to 'protect' or to 'tolerate' racists (both of which are your words). When someone's arguments are suspicious (let's say, Deceit), I grant them the benefit of the doubt and engage with the innocent interpretation of their argument. Doing so does racists little service - there isn't any innocent argument that will make people racist; but doing so does prevent honest people from feeling attacked or alienated, which is important for bringing these people (conservatives/centrists) to the social left. I can understand not liking this approach because it doesn't attempt to hunt down and expose racists right away, but people can still build a track record that will inform how suspect we should consider them to be. This is the methodology that I’ve applied to Trump, and is part of why I won’t be voting for him.
3.) My "redeemable conservatives" phrase is a pretty vague term, but I use it to mean social conservatives who aren't deep into white supremacism, AKA people who can realistically be brought to the social left.
I dont wanna get too deep into this here and I probably shouldn't have spoken up in the first place, centrism just like freaks me the fuck out though lol. Seeing people be like "hey don't be too mean to racists... they're humans just like u and me... everyone makes mistakes" and I'm sitting here like "wait so you wont ban him and we cant call him a bitch like come on how is this fair"
I sympathize with that a lot, and I'm definitely not looking to draw this out either. I think you speaking up was fine; we've been civil, so there is nothing to be embarrassed about. Thanks for talking, time for me to hit the hay.